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Leviathan.Niniann said: Submissive: inclined or ready to submit; unresistingly or humbly obedient: submissive servants. Basically, if she can get you to do whatever she wants you're a sub. And yes, this includes listening to her talking about other guys. Sylph.Herropreeze
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You guys srs?! /cry
Bahamut.Feisei said: Yea i'll bite...moreso because im sort of at a loss as what to do. 3 and 1/3 years ago I dated this japanese girl and things were great till she left to go back to japan(something I knew all along...mistake learned). Kept talking to her for a couple weeks after she had left and I was rather emo(my first love) about her not coming back for who knows how long. I tend to get upset when a girl I love breaks up with me and I cant have her anymore cuz I love with my whole heart. ***ended badly, I said alot of dumb things and we stopped talking for the past 3 years(also blocked me on fb) until... About a week before the japan earthquake/tsunami I thought it would be cool to see what she was up to so I sent her a email. A couple emails later ***hit the fan in japan and I learn shes coming back for a month since she cant really do anything since everything is shutdown pretty much(school, work, etc). Well of course a bunch of old emotions in me get stirred up and I just don't even know. The real kicker here is, my 2 best friends are still friends with her and have been keeping in touch with her. So im bound to run into her at some point shes here and i dont even know what ill do. If you don't want your emotions to be so obvious... just avoid her by playing FFXI the entire time she is in.... oh wait... nevermind.... you can't atm. Nah, but in all seriousness... think about what you want. If you want to get back into this girl's life... you probably should start back as becoming a friend again. Regardless of how much you wanna just jump into a relationship... after having past issues, it would be best to take it slow... and maybe everything will work out for you in the end. Bismarck.Josiahfk said: Phoenix.Dabackpack said: Bismarck.Josiahfk said: Phoenix.Dabackpack said: Bismarck.Josiahfk said: Phoenix.Dabackpack said: Well, I was in a kind of "love triangle" a while back, but I don't think there's a geometric shape that exists which could describe what it was exactly. But I handled it the wrong way (doing nothing and hoping it to pass) and I'm still regretting it, because one of my close friends involved still holds a grudge, I suspect. And now I'm afraid to do anything else with love for that same reason. All my experiences have ended badly (not for myself, but for others). I'm always given flack for not telling her straight up, but most of them don't know the whole story (and telling her might not have helped). But my friendship with both of them was equal, I would say, I just had more classes with the girl I liked than with my friend. Another of my friends described it as "The Cold War of emotions", which I thought was apt because I was distraught by the situation too. Oh well, I've learned a harsh reality with it. And it feels good to talk to someone who has no involvement with the situation. Thanks for listening! Sylph.Tigerwoods said: Obligatory *** love confidence Odin.Liela said: It's very hard for me to talk to guys other than my husband unless I know them well, because I've had problems in the past when men thought I was flirting and I hadn't meant to come across as flirtatious at all. Bahamut.Lolserj said: my like-minded group is people who don't know how to talk to women though i asked a friend what i should do and he told me to break the ice by grabbing her boobs and that was his best answer he could give because he doesn't know how to talk to women either Fenrir.Nightfyre said: Bahamut.Lolserj said: my like-minded group is people who don't know how to talk to women though i asked a friend what i should do and he told me to break the ice by grabbing her boobs and that was his best answer he could give because he doesn't know how to talk to women either isn't that sexual assault though? Bahamut.Lolserj said: Fenrir.Nightfyre said: Bahamut.Lolserj said: my like-minded group is people who don't know how to talk to women though i asked a friend what i should do and he told me to break the ice by grabbing her boobs and that was his best answer he could give because he doesn't know how to talk to women either isn't that sexual assault though? Bahamut.Lolserj said: Fenrir.Nightfyre said: Bahamut.Lolserj said: my like-minded group is people who don't know how to talk to women though i asked a friend what i should do and he told me to break the ice by grabbing her boobs and that was his best answer he could give because he doesn't know how to talk to women either isn't that sexual assault though? Bahamut.Lolserj said: Fenrir.Nightfyre said: Bahamut.Lolserj said: my like-minded group is people who don't know how to talk to women though i asked a friend what i should do and he told me to break the ice by grabbing her boobs and that was his best answer he could give because he doesn't know how to talk to women either isn't that sexual assault though? Asura.Bluespoons
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Long post is long...
So I just got engaged, yay! It's the best thing that ever happened... but there's a *** face lurkin' in the background. It's his ex (and I really mean ex, it's his first gf ever) and she just can't get a *** grip on the fact that he's with me. She used to call him and text him all the time asking him to go over to her house (the one she just bought with her new hubby), asking him what it is that I do all day while he's at work, is he sure I'm not cheating on him... basically just trying to paint me as some lying ***. I told him that I wasn't really a fan of him talking to her since all she could do was trash talk me. I get that they remained friends after her broke up with her, and I'd be all cool with that if she wasn't always acting that way. He's friends with another girl that he used to date and we actually hang out with her and her fiancée sometimes, because she isn't always trying to make me out as a bad person. So, after telling him that I didn't like it, he deleted her from his phone, and stopped responding to her. So yay for like 3 months of not dealing with that. Then he added her to his facebook. She does the same ***now... messaging him asking all sorts of crap that's none of her business, and telling him she's heard ***about me and the bad things I've been doing behind his back. I understand that it's someone he was in a relationship with, there's a special kind of thing they have that will never go away. Like all of my exes were ***, but I still care enough about them to hope they're doing well. I can't figure out how to tell him to delete her without sounding like I'm some jealous ***. tl;dr How can I tell my fiancée to get rid of his ex? inb4 i'm somehow jealous Asura.Sandolphon
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Studies show that there is a direct correlation between the amount of girls you get and the more you look like a uterus.
Hmm, from my experience a lot of women are overly cruel and condescending in nature, but ahh that's women my own age for the most part, and I don't tend to do well talking to them anyway. All in all, it's my opinion that you save yourself a lot of stress by being apathetic about the whole deal. What I mean is, more women have taken an interest in me/told me of romantic feelings since I stopped obsessively pining/caring so much(but I totally did it like a boss) about what one or two women thought about me. Then again, it might also be the fact that I'm somewhat attractive since puberty ended. On a what frustrated me the most note: Gay men started hitting on me long before women started flirting with me..
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Asura.Bartimaeus said: Hi Spoons, have Abri cut the ***. :D [Congrats btw] =O that's all I gotta do? QUICK! Call Abri for me lol Bahamut.Lolserj said: let's not chance it... Bahamut.Dasva said: Leviathan.Niniann said: Submissive: inclined or ready to submit; unresistingly or humbly obedient: submissive servants. Basically, if she can get you to do whatever she wants you're a sub. And yes, this includes listening to her talking about other guys. Well, I mind if they go on and on about how terrible their bf/relationship is without doing something about it... Leviathan.Niniann said: Submissive: inclined or ready to submit; unresistingly or humbly obedient: submissive servants. Basically, if she can get you to do whatever she wants you're a sub.And yes, this includes listening to her talking about other guys. Asura.Matzilla said: Phoenix.Uzugami said: Does always being tossed into that "close-friend" spot when I really like the girl in question, but she always tends to date horrible types of guys count? :< I hate gold-digging, which is a major turn-off for me, and I think it happens just about 80% of the time. As far as my situation is, I'm a tightwad with my money. I don't spend much, but I do have a job working with my parents' company which is currently getting a lot of good rep. Sylph.Vestal said: Bahamut.Ukiyasan said: Bahamut.Feisei said: Yea i'll bite...moreso because im sort of at a loss as what to do. 3 and 1/3 years ago I dated this japanese girl and things were great till she left to go back to japan(something I knew all along...mistake learned). Kept talking to her for a couple weeks after she had left and I was rather emo(my first love) about her not coming back for who knows how long. I tend to get upset when a girl I love breaks up with me and I cant have her anymore cuz I love with my whole heart. ***ended badly, I said alot of dumb things and we stopped talking for the past 3 years(also blocked me on fb) until... About a week before the japan earthquake/tsunami I thought it would be cool to see what she was up to so I sent her a email. A couple emails later ***hit the fan in japan and I learn shes coming back for a month since she cant really do anything since everything is shutdown pretty much(school, work, etc). Well of course a bunch of old emotions in me get stirred up and I just don't even know. The real kicker here is, my 2 best friends are still friends with her and have been keeping in touch with her. So im bound to run into her at some point shes here and i dont even know what ill do. If you don't want your emotions to be so obvious... just avoid her by playing FFXI the entire time she is in.... oh wait... nevermind.... you can't atm. Nah, but in all seriousness... think about what you want. If you want to get back into this girl's life... you probably should start back as becoming a friend again. Regardless of how much you wanna just jump into a relationship... after having past issues, it would be best to take it slow... and maybe everything will work out for you in the end. lol, funny how you pop up all of a sudden like every time i see you. Id love to get back with her, but i *think* she has a bf in japan. Either way she will only be here for a month and then head back to japan unless it gets engulfed by the ocean(is it bad that i kind of sort of want this to happen?>.>). Back when we dated we always said things like "we can do our own things and after were done get back together in the future"(you get the jist, that was badly worded) since we both knew she was leaving for japan after the school year. I don't even know if she wants to have anything to do with me. Asura.Bluespoons said: Long post is long... So I just got engaged, yay! It's the best thing that ever happened... but there's a *** face lurkin' in the background. It's his ex (and I really mean ex, it's his first gf ever) and she just can't get a *** grip on the fact that he's with me. She used to call him and text him all the time asking him to go over to her house (the one she just bought with her new hubby), asking him what it is that I do all day while he's at work, is he sure I'm not cheating on him... basically just trying to paint me as some lying ***. I told him that I wasn't really a fan of him talking to her since all she could do was trash talk me. I get that they remained friends after her broke up with her, and I'd be all cool with that if she wasn't always acting that way. He's friends with another girl that he used to date and we actually hang out with her and her fiancée sometimes, because she isn't always trying to make me out as a bad person. So, after telling him that I didn't like it, he deleted her from his phone, and stopped responding to her. So yay for like 3 months of not dealing with that. Then he added her to his facebook. She does the same ***now... messaging him asking all sorts of crap that's none of her business, and telling him she's heard ***about me and the bad things I've been doing behind his back. I understand that it's someone he was in a relationship with, there's a special kind of thing they have that will never go away. Like all of my exes were ***, but I still care enough about them to hope they're doing well. I can't figure out how to tell him to delete her without sounding like I'm some jealous ***. tl;dr How can I tell my fiancée to get rid of his ex? inb4 i'm somehow jealous Congratulations!!! I would give him an ultimatum at this point, but that's just me. In my experiences, exes are always bad news. Cut the tie if she can't be civil. tbh tiger, i was motivated by you and you posting the video months ago, so all in all you should get the credit for me just having sex.
p.s. you would get more credit if i infact had sex with you. Asura.Bluespoons
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Asura.Bartimaeus said: Asura.Bluespoons said: Asura.Bartimaeus said: Hi Spoons, have Abri cut the ***. :D [Congrats btw] =O that's all I gotta do? QUICK! Call Abri for me lol I'd hope Ovr gets the idea that you really don't like him even having contact with his crazy ex. I deleted my ex off of urr'thang and while Abri would never ask me to do so, I did it for myself and for her. Like I aid, I get that he wants to be friends with her, and I don't like having to ask him to not be friends with someone, regardless of who they are. I don't want to be the girl that made her guy ditch all of his friends, but I really can't stand the ***. I've never even met her and all she does is act like she's somehow better than me. WHY does ovr have to be so damn dense?! |
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