would anyone else find it weird, say in your late 30s [lets set a scenario] with your friends, dating a 18yr old~ talking about music [down your local pub] and then your friends ask the person your dating, and you receive a response "i dunno i wasnt around" i would feel awkward. I could never date a guy pre 30. Hobbies/Interests/personality big things for me~
Any one else view this the same? or is it "The holes the goal" logic applied.
I would think it comes down to your "goal". If it's purely sex then don't even bother with the pub, just bring that 18 yr old straight home. If you are looking for a relationship you want more common ground ideally. My gf is about 10 years my junior, but we both listen to the same tired classic rock so it works out (to use the music example).
There are numerous body languages that can indicate they are interested, some more subtle than others, but the most obvious ones are: licking of the lips, playing with their hair, tilting their head slightly sideways, and as Sandolphon said, where they're looking at whether it's your junk, your lips, your *** or even your whole body.
I don't know if this has been pointed out (need to read the rest of the thread) but do NOT go on if a girl's playing with her hair. I have a (really obnoxious) tendency to play with my hair for numerous reasons. Examples of such reasons are 'I'm happy', 'I'm really nervous', 'God this is awkward I wonder how soon I can leave', 'I'm bored', 'I love you~<3', 'I'm sleepy'.... etc etc. So what you think might mean 'Wow this guy is amazing~<3' might actually mean 'Wow this guy is a *** creep! I wonder how I can get out of this situation as quickly and as painlessly as possible'.
Also if I'm playing with my hair furiously it probably means I'm nervous as hell.
Yea, nothing should be looked at in black and white because there are exceptions too. Being able to tell genuine ones from accidental ones (from other things or other people) comes with experience. And as my general rule, I don't look for just a single or couple of BL but multiple ones. I'm not an expert on BL or anything like that it's just that those I've pointed out tend to hold true for me most of the time so I stick with them.
Oh and I should note that there are people who actually studies body language extensively and will try to actively control their own BL to trick people. I find that women do this more often because in general, women are more naturally aware to this kind of stuff while men tend to only look at the "body" part and not the "language" part.
How nice is "too nice"? I've heard some girls won't date someone because they seem too nice.
Too nice = codeword for too submissive/lacking confidence.
Bahamut.Lolserj said:
Ramuh.Rowland said:
Asura.Calatilla said:
Ramuh.Rowland said:
How nice is "too nice"? I've heard some girls won't date someone because they seem too nice.
Trying too hard? Sometimes it comes off as fake.
From what I've heard, he's just a generally nice guy that isn't really interested in her, but she COULD be interested in him if "he weren't so nice".
I asked the girl telling me this and she couldn't explain it either. She has a history of dating *** though.
i have been told by someone to be an *** to girls >.>
This isn't true really. The only reason acting like an *** to women works is because the guy gains confidence from berating the female. And of course the woman sees the confidence and wants it. You can be nice and confident--in fact that's what women prefer, it's just less common than a confident ***. I'm going to generalize and state that most women would prefer a confident *** than a submissive nice guy. Also in my experience 'submissive nice guys' have a whole slew of mental issues that they should have had worked out years ago, but that could just be my personal experiences. I think I've heard the term 'emotional terrorist' associated with those types of people.
Then somewhere back people were talking about muscles....
This is my limit. Anything more than that is just... kinda gross.
Unicorn.Leoheart said:
Leviathan.Niniann said:
Yes, yes I should. AFK KINKOS~
Heh, Where do you get them pony memes from btw? :o
Mostly 4chan(either my own searching or it's sent to me by other bronies), then some I make myself. D:
I can tell you right now, I personally find nice guys 100x more attractive than any *** (no matter how good looking, confident or rich he may be). I just love when guys have that sweet, loving, protective personality. Nice guys are so sexy! >_<
Soube hit the nail on the head. Protectiveness is key. I think the confidence that men display in the beginning is more or less an indication of how well they would be able to take care of you.
i would work out but i would stop at the point in which i start losing range of motion and flexibility lol at ***kickers... you get the ***kicked outta you son?
***kickers = Cowboys.
Never lost a fight in my life and being from texas i have been in quite a few.
Ok thats a lie. Me and my bestie got into a fight on St. Patty's day. Needless to say I peed on his 190 dollar Ariot boots and he flying knee'd me in the face.