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Men are fickle little beasts.

at least we have the guts to end it

instead of pulling a bunch of pitiful passive agressive mindgames

trying to get the other person to break up with us

which, come to think of it, seems a lot more fickle than just making a clean break

Yeah.. I'm not one of THOSE women myself, or I try not to be.

It happens. Boys are dumb.

men and women both do that lol i had to break it off with my bfs cuz they are dumb and most of them played mind games with me so i would do the breaking up making me seem like the bad guy so they have something to QQ about lol

some women like football and work on cars

some men love ballet

but they are each in the minority

>.> I love working on motorcycles myself.. but I dont' have a garage, in which, I can do that.

give me a guy that will just break it off first lol gawwwddd seem uncommon to me :P

Um.. To be fair.. Das wasn't the greatest of choices.

ok ive dated other people than just him lol i still had to do the breaking up

i've broken it off in every relationship i've been in

but twice it was because the girl really didn't want to be in the

relationship anymore, but she wasn't going to be the one to cut the cord

Hahah. He was the only one I could recall off the top of my head, and you had to leave him, iirc.

i didnt have to leave. i wanted to leave lol why would i stay there with all that ***that happened lol

maybe you secretly like to be the one who does the dumping!

probably lol usually hurts less xP

I don't even know what happened.

good, keep it that way

I wasn't being catty to you.

I'm still with my first bf, we've been together for three years and I've never slept with anyone else in my life. I don't know what it's like to break up with anyone...

my mom wants me to go downstairs. i can't.

I don't know how your family is concerning your sexuality, but if they're OK with it, maybe she just wants to make sure you're OK?
[EDIT]Nvm went back and read your other post. Either way, she could still just be wondering if you're OK. Moms kinda have that 6th sense thing going on, lol.

In regards to the mind-games, yeah that ***is terrible. I went through that *** with my ex. When I finally got tired of it and called him out on it he freaked and broke up with me. 4 months of stringing someone along is just wrong. In hindsight I blame myself for not speaking up sooner but its hard to do to begin with.

Anywho, mind-games a trash blah blah, etc. I would never be one to string someone along. If its not working out just accept the fact that its over and make a clean break. its best for both in the long run.

no she wants me downstairs for thanksgiving. she has no idea what's going on right now and she never will

Just tell her that your stomach is upset and you can't eat. Don't force yourself to do anything right now.

*comfort*

Sorry that happened to you, Anuu. :( I've never been in a relationship myself, so all I can really say is... even though things suck hard right now, don't be afraid to pick yourself right back up again and seize whatwver new opportunities come your way. They might not be with the same guy, but they will come.

Also - even if you aren't hungry, you should go down and get a little bit to eat. Chemically speaking, it will make you feel loads better. ^^

Or at the very least some turkey will put you to sleep and you won't feel as bad anymore.

Mostly because you'll be unconscious...

I'm sorry to hear about that Anuu. It's never easy to end a relationship, especially when you're the one not doing it. It'll get better though. I know it's hard now, but in the long run it'll make you a stronger person.

And... I've had enough family to last me until next year. Where's the ice pick so I can shove it in my ears?

ok, somebody make a conversation please, i need to talk or i'm gunna go crazy

happy turkey day!

Evening again all! Sorry to hear about your loss Annuu, however I have something that will hopefully cheer you up!

This is a video I made 4 years ago for my then first BF. It was supposed to be a Christmas present. It's sort of cheesy, but also kind of sweet at the same time.

http://www.megavideo.com/?d=S56T6BAS

Now, the reason I think you'll like it so much is that it's Hume x Galka. There, feeling better already no?

Anyways, ignore the spelling errors and incorrect usage of there, they're, their etc. I swear I'm more literate now...

The song in the background is Gackt's 12 Gatsu no Love song (December Love Song).

Everyone else is welcome to watch it too! Hopefully it will put you in the Christmas (or whatever Holiday you celebrate) spirit. And yes, I realize it's Thanksgiving for some but I don't care >;o!

Enjoy~

EDIT: the text on the video are the lyrics to the song, translated into English and stolen from a website, so if they come off as a little creepy it's not my fault... <.<~

I like mindgames though

My bf asked me if I wanted anything from Starbucks on his way home

and i said sure

he asked what i wanted

and i told him he knows what i like

now when he gets me something i hate i can be mad at him

should be home any minute i'll letcha know how it goes