Fenrir.Gimmeurselables said:
Is it cool going to a gay club if you're straight? I've been and I had to deny guys on me, you know not in a mean way or anything, but does that give me bad rep or what?
I've been once. It wasn't bad. Plus the handful of other straight women there with their gay friends were suddenly very interested in chatting with me.
If you're secure in your sexuality, who gives a crap? My gay friends thought it was great that I'd be willing to go. I got plenty of compliments from gay guys there, but there's a difference between a compliment and a come-on. (Unless you don't have enough experience to tell the difference.) Somehow they could just pick up on the fact I wasn't gay, and it stopped at compliments. It's not like all gay folks are crazed sex machines trying to convert you.
Which is another pet peeve of mine: straight guys who are total slobs, whining about how women never look at them twice, but then somehow assume they're so insanely attractive every gay guy in the world wants to jump their bones. Gay dudes have physical standards too, guys -- usually higher than women do. Trust me, you have nothing to worry about.