FFXI LGBT Community, Who Are You?

Maybe because when you tell someone you like them but they don't feel the same way, they always make sure to tell you how good a friend you are. :< And that has a tendency to mean game over. :(

Oh, I see. :-( Instead of telling you the truth, that they dislike this or that about you, they try to let you down easy and it ends up being a pain in everyone's arse. That does compute. /comfort!

I think it does mean (slightly) different things to different people. That's just my experience anyway. XD

YEAH!!! Thats what I always say about Ms Tammie Brown!

There was that one video too, some guy went around a college campus asking girls if they thought men and women could be just friends. Most of the girls said yes, but then when they asked if the guy friends would be willing to have sex with the girl friends, all the girls thought (or implied) that the men would be willing. That seems incorrect in my own experience. I have more guy friends than girl friends, but I don't think any of them would ever think that way (about me.) Most of them are like brothers or cousins to me, and most of them are also good friends with my husband. Maybe it's just because I'm married, but I'm just not seeing any horn-dog guy friends. Or maybe my friends are just classy? Or maybe that's just an incorrect stereotype at mens' expense. >.> Poor men, they always get the negative end of the stereotype.

I wasn't a fan of Tyra Sanchez but rewatching that Season she definitely was the best. The only time she *** up was when she has to sing >.>"" but otherwise she did a rly good job. Even in the final lip sync w/ Raven she completely destroyed her performance wise.

I think stereotypes are nothing but negative ends. XD

Oooh just remembered, I has FFXIII question !
MIND TEH SPOILERZ GAIZ D:

If I leaveafter defeatingfor the second time, will I be able to come back and finishor isa one-way ride ?

read the ladder theory. guys can be friends with you because youre unavailable. it's one of the rules.

on another random note, just got done running with my shirt off ;o a girl took a peek as i was running past :3

I googled the ladder theory, and I think some of it is wrong and some of it is scarily accurate. xD It does make sense that I can have guy just-friends because I am unavailable, but my single friends get into all sorts of senseless drama over male just-friends. Makes kinda perfect sense, actually. :o

You'll get to the 13th Chapter in Orphan's Cradle where you can go to Pulse or Cocoon from teleporters, and back to Orphan's Cradle. You have to complete Ch12 to get back to Ch11's content though.

I hate how LogoTV.com has so many commercials, and it's always the same one like 3 times in a row, then at the end of the show it's like 18 times watching the same commercial in total.

In the gay world your only allowed real friends when ur single. When you ur "facebook relationship status," then his friends are automatically your friends, which personally I've never liked....

We must live in completely different gay worlds.

Wouldn't that also go the other way though too ... and cancel out?

cancel out? huh?

then his friends are automatically your friends

by extension, your friends would automatically be his friends
and there'd be no net change o_O

U ever take chem? its a imbalanced equilibrium such as that in weak organic acids =) It's labeled equilibrium but it really isnt lol



EDIT: i drew the arrows in the wrong direction. lolz equilbrium is directed to the LEFT in all 3 reactions. May Linus Pauling forgive me!

But, how do you pick who's on which side :P

Just like in chemistry, its dependent on the entire system and external variables.

E.g. your friends may not like your bf, and therefor in-order to remain bf's you two have to hang out with HIS friends consequently since ur friends don't like him.

Never had this problem :3

Your extremely fortunate... lol

This is why I'm foreveralone... That relationship ***is way to complicated XD

THis is how I feel(foreveralone)Even though ive wanted/want a relationship... i dont rly pursue one. I can see myself living w/ my little babies(Raja and Gaia) for the rest of my life ::

thanks to lolpics i am now going to post a matthew lewis flood. you're welcome

we'll start with this one, showing how kind puberty (and some veneer work) have been to him

This exact scenario happens to me all the time. I tell my friends to deal with it and stfu, and the bf to like my friends or gtfo. Has worked well for me :D

The Mercy Stroke thread has me crying: MERCY!!! D:

Freaking flame war!

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G'morning :)

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