FFXI LGBT Community, Who Are You?

It's downloading. :P But my internet is really bad atm, I couldn't seem to stay connected to FFXI, hence why I'm playing FFV. XD We'll see what happens~

we having a blast!

Edit: Got griever on skype! i shall make him talk eventually!

Skype XD The only IMing program that works past the proxies on the school network for me

I was rereading comics, this made me laugh: http://threepanelsoul.com/view.php?date=2007-05-30
Fantastic stuff, all of them :D

No skype either, but tempting...

That video is rather random lol.

This is actually a very interesting question/discussion for the bi-s out there. From a conversation with a bi guy some time ago, it doesn't seem necessarily true that bi-s have more choice. By more choice, we're thinking of a union operation between the male and female pools. But for him, he was interested in people with both feminine and masculine characteristics, which is an intersection operation between the female and male pools, and is a much smaller pool (maybe about the same as gay/lesbian?).

I definitely understand where you're coming from. I'm not at all bi-phobic, but I have to admit that I scrutinize and analyze potential bi-mates more than gay mates, just because, initially when trust hasn't been built up yet, with bi guys I have the additional burden of making sure hes not a straight guy just acting on a "curiosity."

There is also the case of different degrees of bisexuality, some guys can be 80% straight and 20% gay, and (don't know this myself) I can imagine how disheartening it might be for the gay mate, if the bi mate oggles at the opposite sex most of the time.

Greiver, Destrac (if hes still on) Carr etc. Doo eet! I'm gonna hop on skype now.

Boo. :(

Give me your skype name Oumura!

I'm hosting a skype call atm, Ezzi is talking with Griever for the time being. Stop being shy btw! =3

I will make him talk!

Downloading it atm, forgot I hadn't since I got the new HD, lol.

Bad Oumura!

Good luck!

I'm on skype too!!! Search cordareo :D I'm in call with Ruizutatakau (He's R rated) and Sunrunner (siren server, R rated also) :)

Edit: Wut... sorry about the I'm one skype I meant I'm on :|

._.; Almost finished installing lol.

Gogo!

My automatic quote function isn't working. Prolly my internet acting up but,

As a bisexual, I don't think -feel- that we have more choice either.
Firstly, when engaged in a relationship (I've been with males, and is currently in a relationship with a female; happily for 14months now), I am completely open to my partner that I am indeed bisexual - not a lesbian, not straight, but bisexual. My girlfriend identifies with 70gay/30straight while I feel that I'm more 50/50, so when we laugh about hot girls or rarely, guys, it isn't as awkward.

I find that I have the impression that in some cases, for guys, bisexuality might increase their interests superficially (acts as a bad judge of their character imo too) as they seem interested in girl on girl. In other males, if they don't care, great! If they're disgusted, we all know how that ends.
But I find that with other females, lesbians will act slightly more cautious exactly for the reason you stated - fear that they/we are experimenting. The doubt is hurtful but I can understand why they do it. Hey, as much as I hate to admit it, I do it too. Bad experience in the past like this - a friend suddenly declared that she's "turning into a lesbian now" (these are her words), it was astonishing to me that she can declare a sudden change because she wants a relationship, any relationship.

Hey, circle of BL might be small, but we are not desparate enough to let people experiment on us, at least most of us aren't.




/rant'd lol;; Sorry D:



People being shy on skype? :P

You have skype?!
Ill join you soon!

I do, but I also have an essay I want to finish XD

npnpnp add me!

SamuraiEzzi `-`b

I shall try this out! Downloading...

EDIT:

My quote thing stopped working too. In a way I find bisexuality fascinating haha, mostly cause I can't imagine myself with a girl (at all, /fear), so its really intriguing how does one find both sexes attractive hehe.

Lulz! Ezzi really did kick me that time XD

And you thought i was joking :s

You're just mad cause you have a super adorable accent =3 Its okay though, I love you anyway!

FUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUU ._.

lol with skype maybe the thread won't grow like 10pages per day.

lol (word)

maybe!

lol my galka gone :D
/panic and /run away? :)

Ok so skype keeps crashing...Can't seem to see why. Trying to fix atm. :X

Then the haters will have their way.

Quick, Everybody uninstall skype so we can keep the gay thread on the top page everyday >:D

We still will talk in here, but we'll converse on skype too!