And most defenders love to ignore how preposterous crap like trigger warnings and safe-spaces has soaked into our culture.
You want hypocrisy in trigger warnings?
If you search for "thinspo/thin positive" on Tumblr, you get a warning asking if everything is okay, same as you do if you search for suicide or any common self-harm terms.
If you search for "fat positive," no such warnings. Though anorexia and morbid obesity are both medically damaging conditions.
I'm about as anti-bullying and anti-shaming-people as it gets, but the abuse of safe spaces can go *** themselves. "Safe spaces" are a positive thing for people with valid problems. People in abusive relationships/families need a safe place. Rape victims need safe places away from their assaulters.
Fat people don't need safe places away from skinny people to avoid being "triggered."
Sorry, this particular topic is pretty close to home for me. I was fat as hell, and I had some very bad beliefs and feelings about it. But never once did I actually suggest skinny people needed to not be around me because their mere presence made me feel bad.