eliroo said: »
Sylph.Shipp said: »
Like I said, you don't have to believe that, but the two opinions cannot coexist and both be respected.
I don't know why I'm taking this bait.
Let me clarify for you a bit what I mean. I think in another post I was a bit more clear.
First, I am only talking in regardless to my son or my daughter. I'm not going to arguing with you about whether or not you should be Gay or not. I don't care. That is your choice, or in your opinion your preference.
That is how I have my opinion but respect yours.
Second, I believe that for most cases it is life influences that make a person Gay or not. Very few people are born with genetic displacement for being Gay. A male being attracted to a female is natural. Whether you believe in a God or not Males and Females were made to interact with each other and reproduce. That is utterly undeniable. A myriad of events cane make one prefer females over males. So, you are right, it isn't a choice that we outwardly make but rather a subconscious choice that we make that will be near impossible to change.
If you read my response to LadyofHonor you will get a more clear explanation of what I believe.
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As for my son being gay, as long as we can agree that very, very few people are born gay. I would raise my kid with heavy influences on a straight lifestyle. If he is still young and decides he is gay (Young enough to not make clear decision), I would do my best to influence him away from that decision. If he is old enough to make his own decisions then there is nothing I can do. I would feel disappointed and sad but I'm not going to punish him. I would most likely just let it go. There isn't much else you can do.
What I posted earlier.
I think it is a dicey subject regardless. I am not trying to offend anyone or tell anyone else they can't be Gay.
Yes, males and females produce offspring. Sometimes males and females can also be infertile. If that happens naturally and isn't a decision someone made, why is it that difficult to reach the conclusion that gay people probably didn't make a decision when they constantly state that?
You can have your opinion. I'm not trying to take it away. I'm just saying your opinion is about as correct as someone claiming they have an opinion that the sky is purple. You can have it, but that doesn't mean people who know it's not correct have to go along with it.
