How does one gank an invader? lol They are the ones trying to gank >_>
My being invaded experience:
Me and Dame go to do the Cathedral of the Deep. I summon him and we get going up one of the shortcuts I had opened.
You have been invaded by Dark Phantom.
I look around. I see nothing. So we continue on.
Blue Sentinel has arrived to assist you.
I look around. I see nothing. So we continue on.
Blue Sentinel has been defeated!
I look around. I see nothing. So we continue on.
Dark Phantom has returned to their world.
¯\_(ツ)_/¯
You and your incredibly powerful pyromancies. My friends came over to get me today when I was gonna go with you and Dame as we took turns routing out each other's Lothric Castle. They watched you riposte with your flame and do the 600+ damage, and they're like, "Yep, Nyos is carrying. He's the bad ***."
And all I did was suck and die!
But back on the topic of invasions...
They really aren't that bad, and you can ignore the invaders sometimes, as they are dissipated upon entering a boss fight. Other times you haven't unlocked an area, and they block your progression. Earlier today I asked Dameion to come with me through the Irithyll Dungeon on my 2nd playthrough, just so it'd go faster, and also because the jailers near Karla gave me so much trouble. We were having a gay old time, and suddenly...
Dark Spirit kirara has invaded!
A mage purist named kirara comes to the landing above us and shoots a Soul Spear at Dameion. He dodged it, but it clipped his shoulder and dealt 400 damage. We double time it up the stairs, and engage her, and she flees straight away to the area of forward progression, unaware that we'd gone that way before and already unlocked a shortcut that was near where they first encountered us. We chased her a little bit, but stopped short of their magic trap. Three blue orbs glittered in and out of sight, and then there was suddenly a very catastrophic magical explosion. We were nowhere near it, so it was essentially fireworks, but it would have been lethal if we'd given full chase. Plus the invader was now in the territory of 3 lesser jailers and 4 rats with another 6 lesser jailers to fall back on.
Dame defers to following when summoned, so he followed me as we doubled back around on her. Unfortunately, the only way to approach from behind was by use of a ladder that was in sight of the aforementioned 6 lesser jailers, so we didn't try to ambush her. We set to work clearing out the jailers near Karla's cell, but the invader showed up about half way through rapid firing soul spears again. Missed me twice, grazed me once on my foot for about 70 HP. Then they went into the cluster of remaining jailers. I don't fault them for making use of monsters since it was a 2v1, but Dame was not deterred from removing the jailers. He killed about 3 more, but overextended his stamina and got hit directly with a soul spear since he was too slow to roll out of the way. He did roll, but it still hit him before the I Frames started. He took 938 damage and died. Then it was just me and kirara. He stilled tried to lure me into monsters and take advantage of monsters.
I hit him twice, but he was really nimble and deft with the dodge rolls. I'm using a straight sword as you saw earlier, my guy isn't exactly a powerhouse, and his fighting style is very simplistic. I managed to hit him twice for over 80% of his HP. He couldn't hit me with the Soul Spear, but I couldn't engage the him/jailers due to their effect on HP. I ran to the lift shortcut, and went back to the starting bonfire, knowing that the invader would now have to run all the way back around. I told Dame to put his sign down, because the fighting had worn me down. She'd use the farron darts/other quick weak sorceries to nibble at my HP. I was already low on Estus from doing practically the whole dungeon, and we'd also already traversed it in its entirety and been to the Profane capital. We were back for sidequest stuff and exploration/treasure. Dame put his sign back at the Profane Capital bonfire, instead of the Irithyll Dungeon one, and by the time I realized this, the invader caught up to me. We had a duel around the bonfire, mostly consisting of me baiting him into casting spells, and me completely dodging them. I had no more Estus and no more FP. He started doing the nibble tactics again, and did manage to clip me with a well timed Soul Spear. I was too invested at this point, and still hoping that Dame's sign would show up. I used a Divine Blessing, and kept fighting. I think kirara finally ran out of FP. She'd been dogging us for about 15~20 minutes at this point, with very active spell usage.
Whatever her reason, kirara started to attack me with her fire sword. I don't remember what type it was, but I was a bit taken aback, and got caught by a full flurry of hits. Five hits from their weapon did *** all to my HP though, probably about 1/3rd of it, which is really not a lot of damage for being hit five times. It was understandable since they were a mage purist though, so I started blocking and countering. Most of my counter swings missed or fell short. The range and arc of a straight sword swing is pretty good, but it's not really that good relative to the longer weapons like spears and great swords. I did clip her once. I think she got complacent, since I hadn't parried/riposte attempted. She kept hammering on me with the sword, all thought of magic out the window. I decided to risk a parry, despite never having adopted or honed my skill at it(I just suck so bad at it I usually won't even bother). I did not parry, but it was pure luck that I did try just then, because they did a kick at the same time. If they had kicked my shield, I would have died, because she'd wittled me down by that point. Since I attempted to parry at the exact same time they tried to kick me, the actions cancelled one another and I came out of animation lock first. Two swings, kirara vanquished.
Oh, about the messaging system... when you go to set a message, press triangle to switch message style. That's how you get two line messages and messages with phantom emotes.