Advice On Girls, Yes Another One
Advice on girls, yes another one
I think you're a bit cynical about this whole thing Nikolce <_<
Caitsith.Shiroi said: »
Bahamut.Cuelebra said: »
Just be upfront. "U interested or not"? if they say no just move along.
But if you really want that ***, work hard for it!
Assuming you're not kidding, if you're not what someone wants, no amount of effort is going to magically change their mind. Yes you should put forth some effort, but you need to know when to admit defeat.
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So, funny story:
I am in a class with a girl and we had to do a magazine article on each other (chosen at random) and now we are doing a CSS website and she is really fr behind.
Long story short, she is literally 1 ft from me and I'm helping her as much as I can. Like 30 minutes ago I said I was going to make some food and shes like "I feel so bad, could I buy you lunch or dinner?" and I was like "nah, that's fine, its really not a problem." Then I started thinking "what if that was kind of asking me out?" Anyway, now I am kind of mad at myself...
Was she asking me out? or did she just want to repay my help?
I am in a class with a girl and we had to do a magazine article on each other (chosen at random) and now we are doing a CSS website and she is really fr behind.
Long story short, she is literally 1 ft from me and I'm helping her as much as I can. Like 30 minutes ago I said I was going to make some food and shes like "I feel so bad, could I buy you lunch or dinner?" and I was like "nah, that's fine, its really not a problem." Then I started thinking "what if that was kind of asking me out?" Anyway, now I am kind of mad at myself...
Was she asking me out? or did she just want to repay my help?
Fenrir.Niniann said: »
Caitsith.Shiroi said: »
Bahamut.Cuelebra said: »
Just be upfront. "U interested or not"? if they say no just move along.
But if you really want that ***, work hard for it!
Assuming you're not kidding, if you're not what someone wants, no amount of effort is going to magically change their mind. Yes you should put forth some effort, but you need to know when to admit defeat.
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Could be either, but probably wants to repay your help. I do that when someone helps me. :x
Did she touch her hair or your arm?
Body language > actual language every time
Body language > actual language every time
Shiva.Nikolce said: »
Did she touch her hair or your arm?
Body language > actual language every time
Body language > actual language every time
Touching hair means nothing. I play with my hair when happy/horny/scared/nervous/bored, etc...
Touching any part of your body is a decent sign though.
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Also This has prolly been pointed out but if you ignore girls they try and talk to you more >.>. swear to god if i do decide to text them back that day i normally have 8+ texts from them...(side note: i ignore them because lack of interest not because i like them bugging/whining all day.)
idk im sure someone can tell you the reason behind it. like... they dont like the fact that you dont spend your attention on them and try and get it from you or something...
idk im sure someone can tell you the reason behind it. like... they dont like the fact that you dont spend your attention on them and try and get it from you or something...
Fenrir.Niniann said: »
Caitsith.Shiroi said: »
Bahamut.Cuelebra said: »
Just be upfront. "U interested or not"? if they say no just move along.
But if you really want that ***, work hard for it!
Assuming you're not kidding, if you're not what someone wants, no amount of effort is going to magically change their mind. Yes you should put forth some effort, but you need to know when to admit defeat.
When it comes to dating, it should be sincere and mutual. IF you really do want the person AND ur personal morals and ethics hold no value, then, there's a saying
"The right rod, the right bait, for the right fish."
so if ur willing to change everything about urself such as attire, maybe loose some weight, act and talk different then yah lol
Fenrir.Niniann said: »
Caitsith.Shiroi said: »
Bahamut.Cuelebra said: »
Just be upfront. "U interested or not"? if they say no just move along.
But if you really want that ***, work hard for it!
Assuming you're not kidding, if you're not what someone wants, no amount of effort is going to magically change their mind. Yes you should put forth some effort, but you need to know when to admit defeat.
I don't always fall in love with women, but when I do, they're extremely white and live in shoe boxes.
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Bahamut.Cuelebra said: »
Fenrir.Niniann said: »
Caitsith.Shiroi said: »
Bahamut.Cuelebra said: »
Just be upfront. "U interested or not"? if they say no just move along.
But if you really want that ***, work hard for it!
Assuming you're not kidding, if you're not what someone wants, no amount of effort is going to magically change their mind. Yes you should put forth some effort, but you need to know when to admit defeat.
When it comes to dating, it should be sincere and mutual. IF you really do want the person AND ur personal morals and ethics hold no value, then, there's a saying
"The right rod, the right bait, for the right fish."
so if ur willing to change everything about urself such as attire, maybe loose some weight, act and talk different then yah lol
Typically though it's more common for the female to undergo changes like that in a relationship, well from my observations.
But this quote reminds me just how much of a pain in the *** dating is lol.
Ramuh.Urial said: »
Typically though it's more common for the female to undergo changes like that in a relationship, well from my observations.
But this quote reminds me just how much of a pain in the *** dating is lol.
But this quote reminds me just how much of a pain in the *** dating is lol.
I see men and women do it.
Girls: Push-up bras, corsets, "bootie-pops"(butt enhancing underwear), hair extensions, contacts, spray tans
Men: 2xist(but enhancing underwear because even girls like a good tush), fitted tank-tops(men's version of a bra), spray tans, contacts
I could go on and on. depends how fake u wanna be for that person lol
As for my last story, yeah, it really is a different case than most. And I certainly hope it is legitimate after seven months. It seems so, at least.
The friendzone is oftentimes a tough place, especially when she's completely open with you. I didn't go in hoping "oh gee I like her and I hope I can change her mind". It was something that started off as a friendship, and when I fell I was trapped, so to speak.
The drama was the worst part. Though I did like her, I had to treat her own romantic frustration as a real friend would, not like "oh gee this is my chance". That took priority. I took a lot of ***from my dearest friends about the whole love-triangle-that-wasn't-even-a-triangle thing. It hurt.
A miracle happened, and she started to like me after around a year of endurance.
I'm not sure if this is supposed to be a happy story in that it worked out, or a sad story in what I had to go through to get here.
Up to you.
The friendzone is oftentimes a tough place, especially when she's completely open with you. I didn't go in hoping "oh gee I like her and I hope I can change her mind". It was something that started off as a friendship, and when I fell I was trapped, so to speak.
The drama was the worst part. Though I did like her, I had to treat her own romantic frustration as a real friend would, not like "oh gee this is my chance". That took priority. I took a lot of ***from my dearest friends about the whole love-triangle-that-wasn't-even-a-triangle thing. It hurt.
A miracle happened, and she started to like me after around a year of endurance.
I'm not sure if this is supposed to be a happy story in that it worked out, or a sad story in what I had to go through to get here.
Up to you.
Admittedly, though a lot of people will undergo changes to impress others, I feel like it's a bit silly to ignore that a lot of people make such changes for themselves. People want to look good for themselves sometimes - what a concept, right?
Also, contacts? Granted, glasses don't always flatter a face, but there are reasons other than appearance (especially to appeal to someone else - and if someone is really that turned off by a deficiency in your vision that is generally out of your own control, then they have a set of issues to deal with them self) to opt for them.
Also, contacts? Granted, glasses don't always flatter a face, but there are reasons other than appearance (especially to appeal to someone else - and if someone is really that turned off by a deficiency in your vision that is generally out of your own control, then they have a set of issues to deal with them self) to opt for them.
Nobody is worth being that fake for. They like me as I am or not at all. I will bend, but I will not break.
Bahamut.Raenryong said: »
I think you're a bit cynical about this whole thing Nikolce <_<
They should make a law, banning "friend zone"
Bahamut.Cuelebra said: »
Ramuh.Urial said: »
Typically though it's more common for the female to undergo changes like that in a relationship, well from my observations.
But this quote reminds me just how much of a pain in the *** dating is lol.
But this quote reminds me just how much of a pain in the *** dating is lol.
I see men and women do it.
Girls: Push-up bras, corsets, "bootie-pops"(butt enhancing underwear), hair extensions, contacts, spray tans
Men: 2xist(but enhancing underwear because even girls like a good tush), fitted tank-tops(men's version of a bra), spray tans, contacts
I could go on and on. depends how fake u wanna be for that person lol
Some of us wear them for convenience lol.
Colored contacts yeah.
But some of the stuff you just said are basic things practically everyone does. I was more referencing completely changing your personality tends to happen more to females from what I've seen.
Unless there's manipulation via sex but that's a whole different story.
Friendzone is fun to talk about as long as you don't take it wholly seriously. The opposite is to imply that women should always satisfy your every need just because you are attracted to them.
It's a pretty rough situation to be in if you're attracted to the person (I've been in it before, entirely of my fault back when I was far too submissive etc) but yeah.
It's a pretty rough situation to be in if you're attracted to the person (I've been in it before, entirely of my fault back when I was far too submissive etc) but yeah.
Phoenix.Dabackpack said: »
Story.
Its a story non the less. I have an extremely close friend who is a girl who told me she likes me. but i will (at least atm) never take it further. cause every time i date a friend and we break up... we never stay friends.. (mainly cause their new bfs never like them to hang out with their ex that they still have feelings for.). but some friends are just to valuable to risk =/
Bahamut.Raenryong said: »
Friendzone is fun to talk about as long as you don't take it wholly seriously. The opposite is to imply that women should always satisfy your every need just because you are attracted to them.
It's a pretty rough situation to be in if you're attracted to the person (I've been in it before, entirely of my fault back when I was far too submissive etc) but yeah.
It's a pretty rough situation to be in if you're attracted to the person (I've been in it before, entirely of my fault back when I was far too submissive etc) but yeah.
Is it bad that every time someone says friend zone I hear the theme song from X-files?
Everyone knows guys and girls can't be actual friends! :P
Shiva.Nikolce said: »
Did she touch her hair or your arm? Body language > actual language every time
Did she touch herself and squeal?
Did she, by any chance, vigorously point at your crotch and then her mouth?
It would be a good sign if everytime you said her name she dry humped the air.
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Sylph.Shinobu said: »
Everyone knows guys and girls can't be actual friends! :P
4 of which I've slept with.
3 of which I've dated.
They can be.
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I'm not trying to prove anything with my story. I'm just telling it how it is.
If anything, it's support for the fact that all people are different and most romantic situations need to be handled differently.
If anything, it's support for the fact that all people are different and most romantic situations need to be handled differently.
Ragnarok.Ashman said: »
Shiva.Nikolce said: »
Did she touch her hair or your arm? Body language > actual language every time
Did she touch herself and squeal?
Did she, by any chance, vigorously point at your crotch and then her mouth?
It would be a good sign if everytime you said her name she dry humped the air.
"She want my penis in... or around her mouth."
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This is so very true. I have my hair in my hand basically 24 hours/day and it's not cause I'm giving any flirtatious signal to anyone(I do it even when no one around).
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