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what kind of guy/girl do u like?
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By Odin.Zicdeh 2011-06-29 15:41:49
Ragnarok.Ashman said: zahrah said: Ragnarok.Ashman said: Bismarck.Recaldy said: To take this forum a different route...is it considered "wrong" or "taboo" for a guy be a fan of romance? Not some cliche womens' novel but damn it, I want my shiny armor. >o (See waht I did there? *^_^*) I think that men should not be romantic in any way. I think they should be completely self-orientated and believe women are there to serve them. I think it's important for the man to focus only on his physical satisfaction with no concern for his partner. Because that keeps ashman in business, sweeping the rest off their feet ;3 /gasp
*catches Zahrah dramatically with wind blowing through both of their hair*
Odin.Zicdeh said: Try having a (Male) friend who legitimately enjoys the films and books. And he's not even a prissy floating butterfly. He looks like Seth Rogan.
legitimately enjoys the films and books and is a relatively hairy (albeit thinner) male.
Have we met?
Who knows, it's a small world. I've meet 5 or 6 FFXI'ers in my town alone.
By zahrah 2011-06-29 15:44:17
Ragnarok.Ashman said: zahrah said: Ragnarok.Ashman said: Bismarck.Recaldy said: To take this forum a different route...is it considered "wrong" or "taboo" for a guy be a fan of romance? Not some cliche womens' novel but damn it, I want my shiny armor. >o (See waht I did there? *^_^*) I think that men should not be romantic in any way. I think they should be completely self-orientated and believe women are there to serve them. I think it's important for the man to focus only on his physical satisfaction with no concern for his partner. Because that keeps ashman in business, sweeping the rest off their feet ;3 /gasp
*catches Zahrah dramatically with wind blowing through both of their hair*
I got a giggle out of that.
Anyhow, what's going on now? People's unrealistic perceptions of modern romance?
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By Fenrir.Nightfyre 2011-06-29 15:44:39
Bismarck.Recaldy said: To take this forum a different route...is it considered "wrong" or "taboo" for a guy be a fan of romance? Not some cliche womens' novel but damn it, I want my shiny armor. >o
(See waht I did there? *^_^*) People prefer dark emo types to knights in shining armor these days.
True story!
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By Odin.Zicdeh 2011-06-29 15:45:01
zahrah said: Ragnarok.Ashman said: zahrah said: Ragnarok.Ashman said: Bismarck.Recaldy said: To take this forum a different route...is it considered "wrong" or "taboo" for a guy be a fan of romance? Not some cliche womens' novel but damn it, I want my shiny armor. >o (See waht I did there? *^_^*) I think that men should not be romantic in any way. I think they should be completely self-orientated and believe women are there to serve them. I think it's important for the man to focus only on his physical satisfaction with no concern for his partner. Because that keeps ashman in business, sweeping the rest off their feet ;3 /gasp
*catches Zahrah dramatically with wind blowing through both of their hair*
I got a giggle out of that.
Anyhow, what's going on now? People's unrealistic perceptions of modern romance?
And those who dare challenge it, pretty much.
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By Asura.Ina 2011-06-29 15:46:17
Bahamut.Raenryong said: I agree, kinda. Romance adds a lot of depth to a story and as someone who feels strong emotions often, I find stories with love as part of them very touching (the idea of fighting etc for your loved one for instance). That said, gratuitous sex scenes or whatever can ruin it entirely. Call me weird but despite being a very sexual person, I dislike sex scenes in movies/books etc. If I want sex, I'll go watch porn. If I'm playing a game/watching a (non-pornographic) movie or reading a book, then sex scenes RARELY add anything to the story.
I've never actually read a book with a real sex sceen in it... some that have come close, but I think it would really throw things off like you said if they went into details.
Edit: Scratch that I read one where it went to just after the first hump if that counts... It actually worked really well into the story and wasn't akward at all.
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By Ragnarok.Ashman 2011-06-29 15:47:02
Odin.Zicdeh said: I think they're horribly written and nothing more than mediocre fanfic....
I wasn't a massive fan of the teenage angst or the interpersonal workings of the characters. I also didn't care for the "i can't choose a man but the writer doesn't think this makes me a *** because she's female (and clearly a mary suethor) aspect".
I do however like the imagery, especially in the first book. The sea of green and the dreary rainy days were easy to imagine
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By Ifrit.Eikechi 2011-06-29 15:48:36
Romance is possible these days Nini... Its more like if the guy is really into, getting flowers and cooking dinner and pampering his girl. If mind you, the girl is into that and isn't the more independent type, that isn't into mushy stuff.
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By Bahamut.Raenryong 2011-06-29 15:49:35
Quote: Honest question: how would you define romance as applied IRL? Honestly I think it's more of a story-telling device and doesn't exactly exist IRL in the same manifestations as Hollywood. Not saying I don't believe in love or passion, but the term romance really is lost on me.
I'm a bad woman apparently.
When you go massively out of your way or otherwise make great sacrifices purely for the benefit of your loved one is as succinctly as I can put it. An act which places their enjoyment/wellbeing much above yours though this is kinda vague.
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By Odin.Elmodfz 2011-06-29 15:49:47
Never thought I'd find the guy I was searching for, so almost gave up lol. The criteria I had were:
Taller then me, gamer, into Rammstein as much as me, also into rock/metal etc, good looking, sense of humour, kind, drives, works, similar food/drink tastes, understanding.
And some how, I've managed to find a guy who fits all this and more, and we're very happy :) Needless to say he's a keeper and hopefully I will never have to find someone else, because no one can compare :)
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By Ragnarok.Ashman 2011-06-29 15:50:36
Ifrit.Eikechi said: Romance is possible these days Nini... Its more like if the guy is really into, getting flowers and cooking dinner and pampering his girl. If mind you, the girl is into that and isn't the more independent type, that isn't into mushy stuff.
I got that *** some flowers. *** love flowers.
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By Phoenix.Sehachan 2011-06-29 15:50:41
Eww flowers!
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By Siren.Kogasho 2011-06-29 15:51:12
Women with large boobies?
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By Odin.Zicdeh 2011-06-29 15:51:24
Show your affection by giving someone the severed genitals of flora!
Yes, I just called flowers "Plant penises".
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By Ramuh.Laffter 2011-06-29 15:54:23
Odin.Elmodfz said: Never thought I'd find the guy I was searching for, so almost gave up lol. The criteria I had were: Taller then me, gamer, into Rammstein as much as me, also into rock/metal etc, good looking, sense of humour, kind, drives, works, similar food/drink tastes, understanding. And some how, I've managed to find a guy who fits all this and more, and we're very happy :) Needless to say he's a keeper and hopefully I will never have to find someone else, because no one can compare :) Depending on how tall you are, I fit those criteria. >__>
Er, for the most part? :P
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By Leviathan.Novax 2011-06-29 15:55:34
Everyone on this forum would
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By Fenrir.Nightfyre 2011-06-29 15:59:06
Bahamut.Raenryong said: Quote: Honest question: how would you define romance as applied IRL? Honestly I think it's more of a story-telling device and doesn't exactly exist IRL in the same manifestations as Hollywood. Not saying I don't believe in love or passion, but the term romance really is lost on me.
I'm a bad woman apparently.
When you go massively out of your way or otherwise make great sacrifices purely for the benefit of your loved one is as succinctly as I can put it. An act which places their enjoyment/wellbeing much above yours though this is kinda vague. As long as it's completely of your own will I would go with this, but it's easy to stray over into doormat territory.
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By Ramuh.Laffter 2011-06-29 15:59:52
Leviathan.Novax said: Everyone on this forum would Except for the good-looking part.
There's some uggos out there, yo. >__>
I only like girls I can look at without wanting to vomit. I think Tiger said this sometime ago. :P
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By Asura.Ina 2011-06-29 16:02:14
Well being able to look at someone with out throwing up is a very important part of the relation ship after all... not joking :P
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By Ramuh.Laffter 2011-06-29 16:04:24
Or else you end up in a situation similar to:
"Oh hi, we met online!"
"Oh, hey, nice to m--- blarfghgh"
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By Odin.Zicdeh 2011-06-29 16:05:10
Ramuh.Laffter said: Leviathan.Novax said: Everyone on this forum would Except for the good-looking part.
There's some uggos out there, yo. >__>
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By Ramuh.Laffter 2011-06-29 16:06:58
Some girls/guys like the fatties. :P
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By Sylph.Systematicchaos 2011-06-29 16:07:09
Odin.Zicdeh said: Ramuh.Laffter said: Leviathan.Novax said: Everyone on this forum would Except for the good-looking part. There's some uggos out there, yo. >__>
I had to restrain myself from lol'ing in my cubicle.
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By Odin.Zicdeh 2011-06-29 16:08:38
Ramuh.Laffter said: Some girls/guys like the fatties. :P
That's true. It usually becomes a health issue before an ugly issue anyway.
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By Bismarck.Recaldy 2011-06-29 16:10:11
I'd have to guess it's the constant little things that would make older couples go "ugh" and roll their eyes to. Opening doors for her, pulling back the chair when getting to the table. Rather rushed but I got a party to lead. ><;
Edit: Rather late responce. Think the subtopic changed.
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By Odin.Zicdeh 2011-06-29 16:14:04
Bismarck.Recaldy said: I'd have to guess it's the constant little things that would make older couples go "ugh" and roll their eyes to. Opening doors for her, pulling back the chair when getting to the table. Rather rushed but I got a party to lead. ><;
Nothing wrong with a little chivalry, but there are some crazy *** who might go off on you.
"I CAN DO IT MYSELF"
"ARE IMPLYING IM TOO WEAK TO OPEN A DOOR?!"
<additional crazy *** ***>
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By zahrah 2011-06-29 16:15:24
Well, anyhow. I think the symbiosis between partners is a compromise regardless. These grandiose ideas about romance are bolstered by pop-culture. Rom-coms and romance novels make me gag.
The simplicity in gender rolls are tried and true. Protectiveness and compassion are symbiotic, although it comes in different forms between men and women.
I can be flighty, carefree, ridiculous and overly optimistic to my own detriment, so it's nice when my partner can bring me back down to Earth. On the other hand, I also tend to be anal retentive and have a long fuse but an explosive temper. It's nice to have someone who knows where the line is, and can hold me back before I end up doing/saying something brash.
By zahrah 2011-06-29 16:18:27
Phoenix.Sehachan said: Eww flowers!
I like flowers! Orchids and white and/or pink Calla Lillies. I would rather have them potted rather than cut though. I like gardening.
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By Bismarck.Recaldy 2011-06-29 16:18:35
Odin.Zicdeh said: Bismarck.Recaldy said: I'd have to guess it's the constant little things that would make older couples go "ugh" and roll their eyes to. Opening doors for her, pulling back the chair when getting to the table. Rather rushed but I got a party to lead. ><;
Nothing wrong with a little chivalry, but there are some crazy *** who might go off on you.
"I CAN DO IT MYSELF"
"ARE IMPLYING IM TOO WEAK TO OPEN A DOOR?!"
<additional crazy *** ***> Very true. I guess beneath what I put is some wishfull thinking the girl wasn't met at a bar or some other sensual-less place.
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By Siren.Kogasho 2011-06-29 16:20:49
Would yal guys rather girls with Large Breast or a Large butt?
But you can't have both just one or the other
By zahrah 2011-06-29 16:22:06
Odin.Zicdeh said: Bismarck.Recaldy said: I'd have to guess it's the constant little things that would make older couples go "ugh" and roll their eyes to. Opening doors for her, pulling back the chair when getting to the table. Rather rushed but I got a party to lead. ><;
Nothing wrong with a little chivalry, but there are some crazy *** who might go off on you.
"I CAN DO IT MYSELF"
"ARE IMPLYING IM TOO WEAK TO OPEN A DOOR?!"
<additional crazy *** ***>
What? That's annoying. I don't know if it's because where I was raised, but it's expected and appreciated here.
In college I dated a guy from California who let the door slam in my face while walking out of a restaurant. I was appalled! WFT moment right there.
I know I shouldn't expect it. It's a courtesy, but it is one that is pure habit on the man's here.
just curious i was talking to a friend about it that loves rly big women..so what do u like? and why?
i like curvy girls.. cuz idk but ivehad that super skinny gf and she was pretty but meh it just wasnt enough..
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