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By Sylph.Anuu 2011-06-28 15:44:09
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Sylph.Systematicchaos said:


As far as girls, someone who can take my humor, teasing, and ego. Also they aren't a *** or partier <.<
why don't you like men? ;-;
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By Ramuh.Laffter 2011-06-28 15:45:26
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Ramuh.Vinvv said:
the only line i can really draw that would validate cheating is an abusive relationship. past that there should be no real reason to cheat and it should go through proper channels.
This, pretty much.
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By Ramuh.Laffter 2011-06-28 15:46:16
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Also, hi, I still love this thread.
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By Sylph.Systematicchaos 2011-06-28 15:46:40
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Sylph.Anuu said:
Sylph.Systematicchaos said:
As far as girls, someone who can take my humor, teasing, and ego. Also they aren't a *** or partier <.<
why don't you like men? ;-;

They have cooties.
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By Ramuh.Urial 2011-06-28 15:46:44
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zahrah said:
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zahrah said:
Do you dare alter my text Anne?

Do you dare alter mine, Francis?
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Francis 1511
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By Phoenix.Sehachan 2011-06-28 15:47:06
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Ramuh.Vinvv said:
the only line i can really draw that would validate cheating is an abusive relationship.
past that there should be no real reason to cheat and it should go through proper channels.
Not a reason for not giving a chance to someone.
I've never cheated, I'm not talking about myself.
But there's no need to put a tag on someone for something that belongs to the past.
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By Bahamut.Fezzphx 2011-06-28 15:48:38
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Phoenix.Sehachan said:
Ramuh.Vinvv said:
the only line i can really draw that would validate cheating is an abusive relationship.
past that there should be no real reason to cheat and it should go through proper channels.
Not a reason for not giving a chance to someone.
I've never cheated, I'm not talking about myself.
But there's no need to put a tag on someone for something that belongs to the past.

agreed. gotta learn from the past, and hope that people in the future will give the opportunity to show what we have learned.
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By Odin.Zicdeh 2011-06-28 15:49:59
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Ragnarok.Ashman said:
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Quetzalcoatl.Uptempo said:
Ah another thing i don't like girls who have cheated in a previous relationship, couldn't trust them. *** them sure date them no way.
Depends on the reason, if a girls been *** around in a relationship and the guy doesnt give 2 shits about her then is isnt as bad as a girlfriend who wants to *** the first thing with 3 legs that comes towards her
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Ah another thing i don't like girls who have cheated in a previous relationship, couldn't trust them. *** them sure date them no way.
If it wasn't with you I don't think you should think like that. People can make mistake, or the boyfriend might have been some serious idiot/***/unable/something else...you gotta give chances.
Pretty much this. There are legit reasons to cheat on someone. An emotionally abusive relationship that you can't get out of is one of them. Yes getting out of the relationship seems like an easy answer to dismiss this reason, but things aren't always that easy.

Whatever helps you sleep at night.


There's a difference between legitimate reasons, and sympathetic ones.

I can sympathize with someone in an abusive relationship who has difficulty escaping it, or even someone who isn't being satisfied in a meaningful way.

"Cheating" to me, isn't the act of just *** around with someone else, it's the deceit of it. Relationships get complex beyond most people's realizations, compromises, sometimes wildly unconventional ones, are sometimes necessary.

Just thinking on my toes for a minute, if two people are deeply in love on an emotional level, but one will not engage in any physical intimacy, is it so reprehensible if they come to an agreement that involves loveless sex with someone, let's say, a prostitute?

But the act of being deceitful, intentionally or not, is what turns it into a deplorable act. Mostly because, if you resort to that, it means you were too weak to even try to fix it.

If I was dating someone who I knew had succumbed to infidelity, I can say there wouldn't be an immediate, mutual respect. It may build over time, but knowing something like that would color my initial disposition a certain way, and I just can't help that.


/Seriousface off!
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By Ramuh.Laffter 2011-06-28 15:50:01
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I personally don't think a partner would have any reason to cheat on me, so I'm not too worried.

I'm not abusive. I hesitate when asked to slap her ***, so... >__>

Okay, so maybe they'll cheat if they get bored with me. Not cool. xD
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By Ragnarok.Ashman 2011-06-28 15:51:45
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Phoenix.Sehachan said:
Ragnarok.Ashman said:
Whatever helps you sleep at night.
That's shallow.

I doubt it's as shallow as half of this thread. I highly doubt it's as shallow as using this thread to fill your girl-on-the-internet-syndrome requirements with dozens of guys you don't know at all. It was also said in a light-hearted manner as a quasi-joke (I understand context doesn't translate to text).

That being said, I take my word and being honest more serious than a random sexual encounter to "scratch a temporary itch". Relationships are built on trust, if you don't have trust for each other then I would say you have a mighty "shallow" relationship. That's just my opinion obviously, but then again this thread was a thread asking what people value in finding someone.

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Odin.Zicdeh said:
There's a difference between legitimate reasons, and sympathetic ones. I can sympathize with someone in an abusive relationship who has difficulty escaping it, or even someone who isn't being satisfied in a meaningful way. "Cheating" to me, isn't the act of just *** around with someone else, it's the deceit of it. Relationships get complex beyond most people's realizations, compromises, sometimes wildly unconventional ones, are sometimes necessary. Just thinking on my toes for a minute, if two people are deeply in love on an emotional level, but one will not engage in any physical intimacy, is it so reprehensible if they come to an agreement that involves loveless sex with someone, let's say, a prostitute? But the act of being deceitful, intentionally or not, is what turns it into a deplorable act. Mostly because, if you resort to that, it means you were too weak to even try to fix it. If I was dating someone who I knew had succumbed to infidelity, I can say there wouldn't be an immediate, mutual respect. It may build over time, but knowing something like that would color my initial disposition a certain way, and I just can't help that. /Seriousface off!
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By Phoenix.Sehachan 2011-06-28 15:51:48
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Ramuh.Laffter said:
I personally don't think a partner would have any reason to cheat on me, so I'm not too worried.

I'm not abusive. I hesitate when asked to slap her ***, so... >__>

Okay, so maybe they'll cheat if they get bored with me. Not cool. xD
You're not spanking me? Sorry, I'm going to find someone else then.
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By Ramuh.Austar 2011-06-28 15:52:44
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I'm pretty much a sucker for any girl that calls me stupid names like "hun" or "babe" and uses a lot of smiley faces.
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By Phoenix.Sehachan 2011-06-28 15:52:46
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Ragnarok.Ashman said:
Phoenix.Sehachan said:
Ragnarok.Ashman said:
Whatever helps you sleep at night.
That's shallow.

I doubt it's as shallow as half of this thread. I highly doubt it's as shallow as using this thread to fill your girl-on-the-internet-syndrome requirements with dozens of guys you don't know at all. It was also said in a light-hearted manner as a quasi-joke (I understand context doesn't translate to text).

That being said, I take my word and being honest more serious than a random sexual encounter to "scratch a temporary itch". Relationships are built on trust, if you don't have trust for each other then I would say you have a mighty "shallow" relationship. That's just my opinion obviously, but then again this thread was a thread asking what people value in finding someone.
There was no need to be harsh. And I explained my reasons already anyway.
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By Ramuh.Laffter 2011-06-28 15:52:50
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You're such a sub Laff
It's true. ; ; But I will do it, I'm just like "Uh, you sure, I hit hard. :|"

I do bite sometimes. That's kinda fun. >__>
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By Artemicion 2011-06-28 15:53:25
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Phoenix.Sehachan said:
Ramuh.Laffter said:
I personally don't think a partner would have any reason to cheat on me, so I'm not too worried.

I'm not abusive. I hesitate when asked to slap her ***, so... >__>

Okay, so maybe they'll cheat if they get bored with me. Not cool. xD
You're not spanking me? Sorry, I'm going to find someone else then.

/raises hand

Lol, jokes and srs bsns aside, I like a girl that likes video games, beer, and music as much as I do :3
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By Fairy.Spence 2011-06-28 15:54:43
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Ramuh.Austar said:
I'm pretty much a sucker for any girl that calls me stupid names like "hun" or "babe" and uses a lot of smiley faces.

I sense sarcasm, but I like those kinds of affectionate names.
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By Bismarck.Misao 2011-06-28 15:55:29
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Phoenix.Sehachan said:
Ramuh.Laffter said:
I personally don't think a partner would have any reason to cheat on me, so I'm not too worried.

I'm not abusive. I hesitate when asked to slap her ***, so... >__>

Okay, so maybe they'll cheat if they get bored with me. Not cool. xD
You're not spanking me? Sorry, I'm going to find someone else then.
:o have you been a bad girl?
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By Phoenix.Sehachan 2011-06-28 15:55:56
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Bismarck.Misao said:
Phoenix.Sehachan said:
Ramuh.Laffter said:
I personally don't think a partner would have any reason to cheat on me, so I'm not too worried.

I'm not abusive. I hesitate when asked to slap her ***, so... >__>

Okay, so maybe they'll cheat if they get bored with me. Not cool. xD
You're not spanking me? Sorry, I'm going to find someone else then.
:o have you been a bad girl?
rawr!
 
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Bummer, have to get ready for work.
Don't have too much fun while I'm gone :o
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By Ramuh.Laffter 2011-06-28 15:56:34
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Ramuh.Rowland said:
Ramuh.Laffter said:
Ramuh.Rowland said:
You're such a sub Laff
It's true. ; ; But I will do it, I'm just like "Uh, you sure, I hit hard. :|" I do bite sometimes. That's kinda fun. >__>
It's okay man. I do it too. /brohug
Lol :>

I did experiment trying to dominate, it's uncomfortable for me, but I can do it if necessary. >__>
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By Bismarck.Misao 2011-06-28 15:57:17
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Phoenix.Sehachan said:
Bismarck.Misao said:
Phoenix.Sehachan said:
Ramuh.Laffter said:
I personally don't think a partner would have any reason to cheat on me, so I'm not too worried.

I'm not abusive. I hesitate when asked to slap her ***, so... >__>

Okay, so maybe they'll cheat if they get bored with me. Not cool. xD
You're not spanking me? Sorry, I'm going to find someone else then.
:o have you been a bad girl?
rawr!
RAAWRR
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By Fenrir.Saeki 2011-06-28 15:57:35
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Odin.Zicdeh said:

But the act of being deceitful, intentionally or not, is what turns it into a deplorable act. Mostly because, if you resort to that, it means you were too weak to even try to fix it.

If I was dating someone who I knew had succumbed to infidelity, I can say there wouldn't be an immediate, mutual respect. It may build over time, but knowing something like that would color my initial disposition a certain way, and I just can't help that.
This.
In my opinion it just means that the person in question did not have the balls to communicate with their partner to say that they were unhappy. It's always easier to lie than confront someone with a harsh truth.
I know that personally, I would always prefer to be told the truth. Sure it would hurt, but if the reason was legitimate and it was brought up in a respectful manner, I would never get angry.
At least for me, either way you twist it, cheating shows weakness of character. Try to communicate and fix it first. Or break it. But don't go behind my back letting me believe it's all fine and good, that's just plain disrespectful.
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By Fairy.Spence 2011-06-28 15:58:08
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Bismarck.Josiahfk said:
Fairy.Spence said:
Ramuh.Austar said:
I'm pretty much a sucker for any girl that calls me stupid names like "hun" or "babe" and uses a lot of smiley faces.

I sense sarcasm, but I like those kinds of affectionate names.
idk they're too misleading too often. Sounds friend zoned when all the women you know use em

That's true. I usually get called Spency when friendzoned

...

Jordan calls me Spency

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Ramuh.Urial said:
zahrah said:
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Do you dare alter my text Anne?

Do you dare alter mine, Francis?
Fun fact.
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Francis 1511
lmao

Spooky!
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