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what kind of guy/girl do u like?
 Leviathan.Niniann
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By Leviathan.Niniann 2011-06-26 21:48:36
Carbuncle.Sevourn said: Lakshmi.Flavin said: Am I going to worry about if i'm as good as the guy before me? not really cuz she's with me now and not with him. Leviathan.Niniann said: It's so bad that I absolutely refuse to be in a longterm relationship with anyone who falls below 'average', and doesn't do me AT LEAST twice a week.
her being with you now does not mean that she is going to stay with you if you are down there below ned flanders
let me guess though if she would dump you over that it's not "true love" and insert unrealistic over-romantic third grade platitudes here
As much as I wish that life was a Disney movie, it's not. A bad sex life will destroy your relationship, and it's not always just about the sex. Bad sex leads to insecurities/unhappiness/being unfulfilled, so does lack of sexual interest, etc.
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Bahamut.Fezzphx
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By Bahamut.Fezzphx 2011-06-26 21:49:29
Leviathan.Niniann said: Bahamut.Fezzphx said: ya the newer 5 and 6 blade dealys are great! though replacement blades are freakin expensive. thats why i would go with the disposable 3 blade ones.
Yeah I have a 6 blade vibrating one (NO I DON'T USE IT TO PLEASURE MYSELF). It's really the only thing that gives me a smooth shave with minimal razorburn. Except now it sucks because it tears up my bugbites but that's an entirely different story.
I would have never made such an assumption! shame on you. :p
 Carbuncle.Sevourn
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By Carbuncle.Sevourn 2011-06-26 21:49:29
Lakshmi.Flavin said:
Nah if she dumped me for that it just means that my sexual performance is something important to her in our relationship and I couldn't satisfy her needs. So in the end we wouldn't work out.
Edit: and you're right it does not mean she will always be with me but she is with me now and that would really be all that mattered to me at the time. It just seems wasteful to me to stress about something like that.
that would not be a reason i wanted to get dumped
if you're okay with that you're okay with that but i doubt you would take it with such equipoise if it actually happened
i could be wrong, you could be a cleverbot
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Ramuh.Krizz
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By Ramuh.Krizz 2011-06-26 21:50:16
Though being the best in bed won't keep her from being a *** if she's a ***. Just sayin.
Leviathan.Niniann
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By Leviathan.Niniann 2011-06-26 21:50:58
@Fezz
D:<
@Sev
Choked on my spit at cleverbot comment
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 Phoenix.Fondue
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By Phoenix.Fondue 2011-06-26 21:51:52
Ramuh.Krizz said: Though being the best in bed won't keep her from being a *** if she's a ***. Just sayin.
thats what chains and dungeons are for
i think
Leviathan.Niniann
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By Leviathan.Niniann 2011-06-26 21:52:27
Ramuh.Krizz said: Though being the best in bed won't keep her from being a *** if she's a ***. Just sayin.
True, but in most cases women won't want to ruin a good thing. Unless they're completely *** in the head then idkman.
Ramuh.Krizz
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By Ramuh.Krizz 2011-06-26 21:53:08
Leviathan.Niniann said: Ramuh.Krizz said: Though being the best in bed won't keep her from being a *** if she's a ***. Just sayin.
True, but in most cases women won't want to ruin a good thing. Unless they're completely *** in the head then idkman. Sums my ex-wife up in one reply.
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By Lakshmi.Flavin 2011-06-26 21:55:47
Carbuncle.Sevourn said: that would not be a reason i wanted to get dumped
if you're okay with that you're okay with that but i doubt you would take it with such equipoise if it actually happened
i could be wrong, you could be a cleverbot Why is it so important for you to believe that it wouldn't bother me? Some things happen in your life that make you realize there's no time to waste fretting over things like that. Relationships are fragile things and any number of things can end them. Would it suck that a relationship ended because I couldn't perform sexually to satisfy her need in a relationship? Yeah it would. Mostly because I would care for her and if it were to end because of something I did or couldn't do it would suck. If she told me that I suck in the sack would I get all insecure about it and fret over it? no, I wouldn't. If I cared for her I would see if there was something I could do to try and repair the relationship and if not I would wish her the best and move on.
Bahamut.Fezzphx
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By Bahamut.Fezzphx 2011-06-26 21:57:04
Leviathan.Niniann said: Yeah, I could see how being compared would be scary. I'm ashamed to admit I do have a list, and it is ranked, and I would know if you were amazing, average or sucked.
FEAR ME.
I think everyone has a list of sorts. unless you cant count into the triple digits.. then idk.
Ramuh.Krizz
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By Ramuh.Krizz 2011-06-26 21:57:40
Bahamut.Fezzphx said: Leviathan.Niniann said: Yeah, I could see how being compared would be scary. I'm ashamed to admit I do have a list, and it is ranked, and I would know if you were amazing, average or sucked.
FEAR ME.
I think everyone has a list of sorts. unless you cant count into the triple digits.. then idk. If your list is in the triple digits, I hope you're a porn star. Just sayin.
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Leviathan.Niniann
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By Leviathan.Niniann 2011-06-26 21:58:01
@Krizz: whell then. D: *** be crazy.
Bahamut.Fezzphx
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By Bahamut.Fezzphx 2011-06-26 21:58:54
Lakshmi.Flavin said: I always thought one of the best/most enjoyable things was learning each others bodies and such and experimenting and such. Every girl I've been with (hasn't been too many so I might not be the best example) has liked to be touched differently and enjoyed different aspects/positions/touches/etc. Each person is kind of like a journey until you find the one you want to be with forever! :)
lots of truth in that. people may have similar anatomy, but what they find pleasurable can be miles apart. for some, pain is pleasure. for others, pain sucks!
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By Lakshmi.Flavin 2011-06-26 21:59:20
Ramuh.Krizz said: Bahamut.Fezzphx said: Leviathan.Niniann said: Yeah, I could see how being compared would be scary. I'm ashamed to admit I do have a list, and it is ranked, and I would know if you were amazing, average or sucked.
FEAR ME.
I think everyone has a list of sorts. unless you cant count into the triple digits.. then idk. If your list is in the triple digits, I hope you're a porn star. Just sayin. or an NBA star or own a nudie magazine...
Bahamut.Fezzphx
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By Bahamut.Fezzphx 2011-06-26 22:01:06
Bahamut.Raenryong said: It's a natural (male) impulse to want to be the perfect sexual partner because your sexual identity is such a large part of yourself.
The more partners said girl has had, the more you have to compete against. Therefore, a girl with less partners (or zero) puts less stress on your mind, even subconsciously.
I have to disagree with that last part a little. the one virgin i did have experience with i felt a bit more stress, i didnt want to ruin it for her of be so bad for her that she would be like. "what, thats what ive been waiting for?" lol luckily that did not happen, but the worry was there.
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By Asura.Alymorel 2011-06-26 22:05:45
I have a list. It's not so much great-average-sucked, it's more sucked-really sucked-WTF ARE YOU DOING?!?!
; ;
Lakshmi.Flavin
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By Lakshmi.Flavin 2011-06-26 22:06:12
Asura.Alymorel said: I have a list. It's not so much great-average-sucked, it's more sucked-really sucked-WTF ARE YOU DOING?!?!
; ; /comfort
Bahamut.Fezzphx
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By Bahamut.Fezzphx 2011-06-26 22:06:17
Asura.Alymorel said: I have a list. It's not so much great-average-sucked, it's more sucked-really sucked-WTF ARE YOU DOING?!?!
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dang /comfort
Phoenix.Fondue
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By Phoenix.Fondue 2011-06-26 22:06:40
Bahamut.Fezzphx said: Lakshmi.Flavin said: I always thought one of the best/most enjoyable things was learning each others bodies and such and experimenting and such. Every girl I've been with (hasn't been too many so I might not be the best example) has liked to be touched differently and enjoyed different aspects/positions/touches/etc. Each person is kind of like a journey until you find the one you want to be with forever! :)
lots of truth in that. people may have similar anatomy, but what they find pleasurable can be miles apart. for some, pain is pleasure. for others, pain sucks!
I'm glad i'm not the only one into larger ladies, /hi5
Leviathan.Niniann
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By Leviathan.Niniann 2011-06-26 22:07:52
Asura.Alymorel said: I have a list. It's not so much great-average-sucked, it's more sucked-really sucked-WTF ARE YOU DOING?!?!
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Feels bad man. :x
Ramuh.Krizz
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By Ramuh.Krizz 2011-06-26 22:08:02
Asura.Alymorel said: I have a list. It's not so much great-average-sucked, it's more sucked-really sucked-WTF ARE YOU DOING?!?!
; ; I lol'd
 Phoenix.Uzugami
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By Phoenix.Uzugami 2011-06-26 22:13:37
Leviathan.Niniann said: Ramuh.Krizz said: Though being the best in bed won't keep her from being a *** if she's a ***. Just sayin.
True, but in most cases women won't want to ruin a good thing. Unless they're completely *** in the head then idkman.
I DISAGREE NINI D:< Seriously, I have horrible luck with women it seems. Most/if not all the girls I was with, either cheated on me, or other ***to end the relationship. Then months later they'd come back, tell me they miss they way I treated them and how "happy" I made them. Like the saying goes, you don't know whatcha got 'till it's gone right?
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By Odin.Blazza 2011-06-26 22:14:24
My original point was actually more what Niniann summed up, learning can be fun. I've had no complaints so far, so either they've been way too polite, or I'm at least half decent. If you find someone you connect with outside of the bedroom, and then you take it to the bedroom and things aren't great, then it can be a lot of fun working with each other to make it great. However, there's a big difference between not great and terrible. Da Vinci didn't paint the Mona Lisa with crayons, if you know what I mean.
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By Asura.Alymorel 2011-06-26 22:17:00
@Blazza: Do you know what foreplay is, and even more importantly, can you get it in?
If you answered yes to both these questions, you're at the top of my list. :P
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By Lakshmi.Flavin 2011-06-26 22:18:36
Asura.Alymorel said: @Blazza: Do you know what foreplay is, and even more importantly, can you get it in?
If you answered yes to both these questions, you're at the top of my list. :P Wow.....
Leviathan.Niniann
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By Leviathan.Niniann 2011-06-26 22:19:34
@Uzu: oh I hear you. I've dated my share of crazies. One of my exs cheated on me, so I dumped him. This was six years ago. Fast forward to college. Sophomore year he stalks me to my uni (he planned to go elsewhere when we were dating) and proceeds to date my roommate (who I was close with, she didn't believe my stories about him...). They break up a year later. After she dumps him/but before he texts me about how much he loves me etc. This has a once a week or so frequency. Fast forward to this years pi day. Calls me, I see a # I don't recognize. Ignore. Voicemail. Play it.
"Hi Caitlin! Happy Pi day. Did you know that the first 100 digits of Pi are... 3.141592653589793238462643383279502884197169399375105209749445923078164062862089986280348253421170679 Well they all... um.... If you ever want to get married, oh because... all you have to do is ask me, and I'll get married to you in a heartbeat, like, I really want to get married to you... and have babies with you. And in 10 years I'll be making 100 grand a year... so if you're interested just let me know, because I'm really interested. Okay! I'll talk to you later! Bye."
.... Yeah.
I was going to say something else but it escaped me.
Ramuh.Krizz
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By Ramuh.Krizz 2011-06-26 22:20:54
Asura.Alymorel said: @Blazza: Do you know what foreplay is, and even more importantly, can you get it in?
If you answered yes to both these questions, you're at the top of my list. :P Those are my kind of standards.
Leviathan.Niniann
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By Leviathan.Niniann 2011-06-26 22:21:07
Lakshmi.Flavin said: Asura.Alymorel said: @Blazza: Do you know what foreplay is, and even more importantly, can you get it in?
If you answered yes to both these questions, you're at the top of my list. :P Wow.....
Oh my god...
Sounds like my ex with ED!
Bahamut.Fezzphx
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By Bahamut.Fezzphx 2011-06-26 22:21:46
Lakshmi.Flavin said: Asura.Alymorel said: @Blazza: Do you know what foreplay is, and even more importantly, can you get it in?
If you answered yes to both these questions, you're at the top of my list. :P Wow..... just..... wow.....
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By Quetzalcoatl.Yomisha 2011-06-26 22:23:14
Ramuh.Krizz said: Asura.Alymorel said: @Blazza: Do you know what foreplay is, and even more importantly, can you get it in?
If you answered yes to both these questions, you're at the top of my list. :P Those are my kind of standards.
lolol!
just curious i was talking to a friend about it that loves rly big women..so what do u like? and why?
i like curvy girls.. cuz idk but ivehad that super skinny gf and she was pretty but meh it just wasnt enough..
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