Bismarck.Josiahfk said:
I'd be shocked if a woman got cheated on by one of those alphas and came out of it genuinely recovered and confident still, so rare to see that type of trauma completely managed
The trick is to find an alpha who isn't a douchebag. Though, to be honest, most 'douchebags' aren't even alphas they're just stupid douches. I guess the issue here is most people can't distinguish an alpha from a douchebag and think they're synonymous since douches typically seem more confident. Then some girls proceed to date betas because they think they're 'nice guys' when in reality they're not. They're pushovers who put a pussy on a pedestal and the girl they're with ends up unhappy. Most betas also have a lot of emotional baggage.
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And I never meet such emotionally healthy people as some of the posters appear here irl, it's like irl either they're too dumb to be aware of these dimensions or their just a well hidden train wreck to be honest
I've got my share of baggage, but I do my best to not let it affect my current relationship.
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And personally I'm no better I just have spent years mastering concealing my flaws, as a couple people I know here have been shown
Honestly, everyone has their flaws/problems. It's just how they deal with them that matters. No one's perfect.