Random Thoughts.....What Are You Thinking?
Random Thoughts.....What are you thinking?
Free spirit is an euphemism?
It means her vagina is free for the doins.
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Jesus guys it's not THAT bad.
Yeah but you're laughing though right?! :D
So was she like hooking up with other dudes while with you? D:
So was she like hooking up with other dudes while with you? D:
No, but we have only been together like 5 days.
She's already brought up threesomes and when I said I wasn't comfortable with that she said she would try and convince me later. -_-
She's already brought up threesomes and when I said I wasn't comfortable with that she said she would try and convince me later. -_-
I thought i held the record at 7 days, you might beat me!
Bismarck.Lillica said: »
said she would try and convince me later
o.O does she think you'll just change your mind or something?
There's plenty of people that only lasted a couple of hours... or ones that thought they were in relationships but never were...
Asura.Dominate said: »
Bismarck.Lillica said: »
Bismarck.Narshee said: »
Bismarck.Lillica said: »
Is there a record going on for shortest relationship on record?
I might be about to break it lol.
I might be about to break it lol.
Long story short, she is a bit more of a free spirit when it comes to relationships and is apparently used to dating guys who are more or less "players" and don't have so many feels.
She keeps saying things that hit me right in said feels and then "not understanding" why I get upset about it.
Also, in an attempt to win an argument she tried to entice me into submission by alluding to Yoko cosplay sexy times, but then didn't even know who Yoko is. -_-
Also, not knowing who Yoko is and still offering to cosplay isn't a negative. Seems like she's willing to make you happy. :o
Yomi is absolutely right! Especially when it comes to the bolded! Were you so self-involved with what you wanted out of the relationship that you dismissed that she was trying to do something out of the ordinary specifically to please you?
Oh :/ You just gotta sit down and think about if this is something you want or need in your life right now. Another bad relationship could mess you up even worse (no offense xD)
ah relationship problems, one thing most if not all people can understand :I
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Well, wild threesomes after five days is a bit soon. Maybe she just really wanted a sex partner. Or she just broke up with someone. Or she's mad at her dad. Or all three of the above.
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When you say she doesn't know how to just be with one guy, does that mean she's likely screwing with other guys while she's with you? Cuz that's totally no bueno.
I'm ok with watching a threesome, but participating in one ... I dunno ... just seems like it would be weird... especially if balls touch (unless of course they're into that?)
Caitsith.Zahrah said: »
Asura.Dominate said: »
Bismarck.Lillica said: »
Bismarck.Narshee said: »
Bismarck.Lillica said: »
Is there a record going on for shortest relationship on record?
I might be about to break it lol.
I might be about to break it lol.
Long story short, she is a bit more of a free spirit when it comes to relationships and is apparently used to dating guys who are more or less "players" and don't have so many feels.
She keeps saying things that hit me right in said feels and then "not understanding" why I get upset about it.
Also, in an attempt to win an argument she tried to entice me into submission by alluding to Yoko cosplay sexy times, but then didn't even know who Yoko is. -_-
Also, not knowing who Yoko is and still offering to cosplay isn't a negative. Seems like she's willing to make you happy. :o
Yomi is absolutely right! Especially when it comes to the bolded! Were you so self-involved with what you wanted out of the relationship that you dismissed that she was trying to do something out of the ordinary specifically to please you?
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Phoenix.Sehachan said: »
Well, wild threesomes after five days is a bit soon. Maybe she just really wanted a sex partner. Or she just broke up with someone. Or she's mad at her dad. Or all three of the above.
For me adding another person to the relationship is a dealbreaker even if I'm involved in said act... For others its a dealmaker lol...
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Leviathan.Catnipthief said: »
I'm ok with watching a threesome, but participating in one ... I dunno ... just seems like it would be weird... especially if balls touch (unless of course they're into that?)
Let us know how it goes, Lil. I live thru your guys sex lives.
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Asura.Ina said: »
Leviathan.Catnipthief said: »
I'm ok with watching a threesome, but participating in one ... I dunno ... just seems like it would be weird... especially if balls touch (unless of course they're into that?)
Even then i'd be wary of doing it... I dunno.
No so sure that part is a bad thing, Ina. I wouldn't want to do such things with someone if it made them miserable. In no way defending her, but that really should be part of it anyway. >.>
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Lakshmi.Flavin said: »
Phoenix.Sehachan said: »
Well, wild threesomes after five days is a bit soon. Maybe she just really wanted a sex partner. Or she just broke up with someone. Or she's mad at her dad. Or all three of the above.
For me adding another person to the relationship is a dealbreaker even if I'm involved in said act... For others its a dealmaker lol...
Phoenix.Sehachan said: »
Lakshmi.Flavin said: »
Phoenix.Sehachan said: »
Well, wild threesomes after five days is a bit soon. Maybe she just really wanted a sex partner. Or she just broke up with someone. Or she's mad at her dad. Or all three of the above.
Honestly some people just like sex whatever it is... There's people who attach more intamacy to sitting on the couch watching a movie with someone than having sex with them..
Wow! Totally forgot I have to refresh 65,000 times to keep up with a conversation in RT. :/
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I'd rather eat food than have sex.. not sure what that says about me other than I'm a fatty.
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Lil, I hate to say this, but let me just try to spin this better for you. If she is more free, than you should take it as a nice lil gift, get some good fun out of it, build up some mojo, and part on well terms (or find someone who wants a more steady relationship if tahts what you are looking for). Having a booty callish person ain't so bad as long as you both don't expect it to go somewhere far. I don't know if you thought it could have been more, but she might not have been as forward in telling you she didn't want to be so serious.
TL;DR - Have fun and get your mojo back
PS: /bro hug
TL;DR - Have fun and get your mojo back
PS: /bro hug
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Bismarck.Lillica said: »
NShe's already brought up threesomes and when I said I wasn't comfortable with that she said she would try and convince me later. -_-
might not be a bad thing?
joke aside
do you "like" the girl?
as in, she has good qualities, is a good person match, attracted to her (not just by looks etc) or you just an to be with her because (sorry for the expression) she is someone you got too close and don't want to feel lonely, especially after breaking your streak?
think of it where you stand, and what you want.
while she might be "free spirited" she does seem to like and trust you a lot, especially for willing to cosplay someone she does not know off, and even suggesting a 3some (assuming wanting to play out one of her fantasies) but like someone said above, things might be going out TOO fast.
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Caitsith.Zahrah said: »
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Carbuncle.Skulloneix said: »
Lil, I hate to say this, but let me just try to spin this better for you. If she is more free, than you should take it as a nice lil gift, get some good fun out of it, build up some mojo, and part on well terms (or find someone who wants a more steady relationship if tahts what you are looking for). Having a booty callish person ain't so bad as long as you both don't expect it to go somewhere far. I don't know if you thought it could have been more, but she might not have been as forward in telling you she didn't want to be so serious. TL;DR - Have fun and get your mojo back PS: /bro hug
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