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Random Thoughts.....What are you thinking?
Jos. You used the phrase 'let it go' too much and I couldn't finish reading because I was singing. I'm sorry.
I've had plenty of friends like that.
Which should speak a lot about my character over-all more than theirs, but that's not the issue. Some are, regardless of what you do, lost causes. Others are open to trying new things to let go of the past, even if begrudgingly so. It really comes down to actively letting go, one white-knuckled finger at a time. Bismarck.Josiahfk said: » When I was a teenager I was absolutely fixated on placing blame when things went wrong, whether it was relationships, economic hardships, or whatever, and ensuring the person "responsible" knew about it. :/ I think part has to do with personality and the way the person's head works, part has to do with how many 'new'/distracting things come along to otherwise occupy their energies, and part has to do with not realising fixating to that degree is just ultimately self-destructive. :/ Since then I've learned to read my own patterns and just set out to do new things when I get that upset. Maybe your friend just needs new things to distract her, and some unbiased insight on how unhealthy such fixation can be--at least as a friend you can control that side of things (even if you can't change how her mind works.) :/ Also I'm a bit ashamed, I was wondering what avatar kitty was using the as I searched for that image it juts came to me, of course it's reborn :<
Kalila said: » Kalila said: » Kalila said: » jerk :< I never let go of anything.
This let it go talk is why I'm listening to the Shiva theme. Odd.
Valefor.Sehachan said: » I never let go of anything. Not grudges. People and past events, I drag them with me forever.
So much to say to that, Seha, so much.
What did I do
Valefor.Sehachan said: » Not grudges. People and past events, I drag them with me forever. I have to let stuff go, more accurately I separate my opinions from my decision making which can, at times, cause an issue in itself.
"I never let go of anything" XD
So many things to say XD I'm baking some fries for lunch (hate the deep fried *** - too oily for me)
The what
Cheese curds, Josiah wants poutine.
Poutine looks gross
/squirts with a water bottle
Stop that. No being Canadian I don't like the way poutine looks either, but it is delicious.
However, I still prefer baked fries over poutine. I saw that edit Urinal
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