Sexuality - Men And Women

I double agree. One it is flattering. And 2 it's rather nice to have the girl make the first move for once.

Mind you, I do a REALLY good Palpatine Voice.

Got an appropriate image.



Terrible logic is terrible.

this is why i have trouble hitting on girls THIS <_<

My husband got me hooked with Yoda >< lol

I'm a firm believer in 'If you want something done right, do it yourself' lol, also applies to asking guys out... because some (like my husband) are hopeless when it comes to talking to women :P

Exactly. Plus it's kinda an obvious yeah they are interested instead of just saying ok if you asked hard and long enough

ahahaha oh man... Dynamis Jeuno Do you needz it?

lmao I <3 yew two

For sure! It kinda irks me that a lot of women kinda take a back-seat in the whole dating thing, when relationships are meant to be a two-way street. ><
As long as a girl doesn't come across as a desperate wench then there's really nothing for them to be scared of~

Hell even desperate might be refreshing lol

Telling My Story Please Read (this may contain TL;DR)

Ok I must now tell a story that transcends time. To must the courage to do this... oh man.

I was in high school at the time.. probably in the 10th grade... It was about Christmas time and everyone in my family went to a restaurant in Boston. This restaurant of course is the "Olive Garden". I have a lot of family but today was one of those days where everyone wanted to get together and go out to eat (everyone meaning people on my mom's side and dads side of the family).

It was big pretty much, so they had to give us a large table and then some. I can tell you there were some fine girls there and their family and friends. There was a particular set of people at a table and it seemed like family and friends I guess, since it was a mix of people..( like black white, asian, etc).

My older brothers noticed we had some girls checking us out, but it was not like we all did not notice. one of my younger brothers and a cousin noticed too and said they were looking at me.

This in turn pissed my dad off, see my dad has always been strict, "Stan does not have time to think about girls, I do not want him into girls"... etc -.-(yes only me....). " This is not place for that cut it out etc".. my fathers older brother told him to calm down and was joking with us the way a uncle would... about girls and stuff since he already knows how HELP I AM TRAPPED IN 2006 PLEASE SEND A TIME MACHINE my dad could be anyway.


Now we could get up and move around and most of those girls went outside so my brothers followed them and older cousins and those pesky little cousins who are *** nosy. I went too but just to see where everyone went. So I went outside an saw them talking with those girls, who sort of made the first move from before.

Usually I look at such girls and go meh.. typical females... When growing up in Boston you could tell apart the different types of girls. For instance these girls were mostly your typical randolph, MA raised girls who go to some exam or catholic school, or even a private school and are out with friends and family.. the type that pretends to be good in front of daddy and does stupid ***even then, that was my view. Well there was one girl not like that and she began speaking to everyone outside, it was cold btw... because it was cold, it was in December. I noticed that they were speaking to her and my brother was speaking to the others and one of my little brothers ran up to me and says:

"Jerry is trying to hook you up with a girl Stanley!" Like I said if you know my dad... even though my brothers would go and have fun I could not or my dad would flip out (he is still like that..). I am a middle child so it is expected anyway, this is what happens when you have six siblings :(.

Back to the story! I began by saying "Jessy... whatever for what leave me alone ?" (I usually do this on purpose because I was interested in what was going on and this girl was cute... and she seemed the most normal out of all of them). Then a little cousin starts acting stupid as he usually does with not keeping his mouth ***, thus we wanted to kick him in the face.

my older sister was interested in what was going outside it was not dark yet... but most of the people went to look through the window. Then Jerry goes to speak to one of my sisters who comes outside and says what was going on

Then he says to me ... "Stan do not f*ck this up just be cool, just do this for me ok..." then another relative came and said like come on to not act stupid just once. I then was like " huh what is going on" (this happened because of distraction"... my mom is at the window also btw... and do not forget there are other people at the Olive Garden. "note" - this may have been the 10th or 11th grade. Either way this is when I see my brother speaking and signaling for all the girls to come over here. From which he then pointed at me, so I went to look in the direction he was in. That is when I saw them coming towards us and of course this involved me.


Here it is all of a sudden I panic, ran, and dashed for the door, there was ice which caused me to fall and slip, at the moment when I started running and slipped... The girls said this:

"Oh my GOD... why is he running away?" Then my brother and everyone started to laugh and hit the floor.. my mom and relatives looked out the window shocked...

I then get up and proceed to run to the door of "The Olive Garden" and go to push open the door but you need to pull.. it took me about a minute to notice this. So everyone began to laugh again, after I noticed it, I went and pulled the door open and ran inside where I slipped again.

Everyone outside including those girls began laughing at me outside... from the Entrance. My mom, siblings, relatives, were like "are you ok...." my dad worse of all just looked stunned... then started to laugh.

I have to tell you this was the most embarrassing, yup pretty much it was.

tl;dr

it is funny read bro.

flirting is natural...it's how babies are made

Sadly, I thought this at first but then I let it all out. Sorry Stanny but I honestly would laugh at you for like, a lil moment before going after to see if you're okay then forget everything that happened. Gotta have compassion for the other person since I know how it is to be embarassed in front of peoples.

btw main thing is chemistry..you kind of can start to tell right away whether or not someone likes you flirting with them "IRL" and then it progresses or you know pretty quick that it's prob not the same vibe so to say..online who really gives a ***..

my cousins and brothers were not laughing at that.. it was the fact of me running away like I did... ;/

^rofl


It doesnt matter what gender you are, go for it and dont get creepy:)

I'm a little buzzed atm, when I first read the OP, I thought it was about men hitting women (physically) or other way around.

But this is about getting some sex, hmmm.

I've done both. And from what I know, women hitting on men just ends up being about some effortless sex for guys for a night or 20 almost consecutively. (lol). Whereas the other way around leads to sex intermediately, and way more effort. So... IDK whatever floats your boat.

/clap

I like the old-fashioned guys. The ones that make the first move, who do the romantic things. Setting up dates, whatever. It feels nice to be treated like a princess. xD

Sadly true...I've dated men and women, and heterosexual women have it so easy compared to het men. Short of making the same broad generalisations of Western culture Jaerik warns about, on the whole het women can confidently wait passively for a relationship to come by (eventually) with little or no effort on her part. LOL (Whether such passive dating habits lead to good relationships is another matter, though...)

Het men are conditioned at a young age to face the possibilities of rejection many more times, and as a result have to develop thick skins and good senses of humour LOL. (Or alternatively develop senses of quiet desperation and/or mysoginistic views.) :p

Wow, apparently running away is worse than social ineptitude.

I've never really been asked out by a girl, but I would like to be. It's difficult for someone as socially awkward as me to come out and make myself vulnerable. xO

Rejection sucks; it is the bane of my existence and I avoid it whenever possible. This has more to do with self-esteem than anything else.

But I see it as perfectly okay either way.

I don't think it's wrong for a guy or girl to hit on the other, someone has to make a move eventually. Of course I love it when I don't have to make the first move, but there are some guys out there who are super dense and can't take a hint.

I think the line is drawn when you get hit on someone who you've shown zero interest in and/or don't seem to get no is no. Makes going out a bit annoying..